In the year and a half since David and I broke up I haven't been dating much. It has been a tough road. I have now decided I am ready to take on the challenge. When you start dating as an adult you realize that you have a lot of questions and expectations that you must meet and accept. I think these two reasons alone are why it has taken so long for me to start over.
I started on dating sites about eight months ago and it is by far one of the most frustrating endeavors. There is something to be said about the initial connection between two people. What is it a standard to start talk to someone and ask "what are you looking for" "do you want children" "what is that you look for"? When you meet someone the old fashion way those questions take months to ask.
It is hard to start over when you do not know what you are looking for. After weeks/months of first dates that amounted to nothing I had to take a step back and figure out what it is that am looking for. What I came up with was, I just want to find someone who makes me happy. I don't know what exactly this is but I know it is what I want.
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