It's not Judging it's Qualifying..

We all have to be qualified to get a job, so why don't we qualify our dates?
RELATIONSHIP QUALIFICATIONS- Take the 5 most important things you want in a relationship and ask the questions. The deal breakers...

1. Do you want to get married or not?
2. Do you want children or not?
3. Is Senses of Humor important?
4. Looks?
5. Goal oriented?

Don't start dating a man/woman if the answers are the opposite of what you want. You will never change his/her mind..NEVER. If you think you will it is only going to end up bad, and you deserve someone who wants what you want.

Tell him/her what your looking for in a mate within the 1st month or sober conversation. Ask him what he wants..If his response is to be physical and have fun together most likely u are the Transfer Chick. TRANSFER CHICK=The girl after a major breakup that helps him get over the "EX" that will NEVER be "the One". Why? Because you will forever remind him of the "EX".

BOOTY CALL QUALIFICATIONS

1. Check the man/woman out..talk to him, nothing personal..is he smart or stupid? Stupid is easy to have this relationship with, smart is questionable..
2. GO BIG! What do you have to lose?
3. Don't settle. Every guy wants a piece of booty. Find the best looking man you can, set your sites and go get him.
4. Don't know his last name and Don't give him your first..use an alias.
5. Be honest tell him he was or is a piece and he can keep bing that as long as he doesn't ask questions. Once he askes questions..HE IS OUT!
6. Don't be friends, it is way to complicated. Someone always ends up wanting more and it is easier to walk from a stranger then a friend. You end up feeling bad which=guilt which= a relationship based on the above and your going to lose a friend anyways....

QUALIFY PEOPLE, QUALIFY!